one deathly most obvious fact

if u try to solve others problem most time self get involve to get positive result...
if u try to solve others problem they point urs weak point instead of understanding what wrong n right...
its totally wrong when someone trying to put person cool and person try to make u temper...

in other words
"idar to pahelesihi pati hai or ..... "

best way avoid every conflict.... :P :D :)

-vArshA nAik..